I understand and find this so much easier said than done. We must sometimes realize abusive relationships exists regardless of the attitude we possess. Sometimes we have to forgive “shake off the dust “ and continue our purpose. Family and relationships can be a tool the enemy uses to keep us held back or focused on instead of sharing the gospel. I do not consider it quitting or losing in those situations as long as there is genuine forgiveness in your heart. Do you believe verbal abuse and manipulation should just be tolerated? I get there will be another mountain behind this one but I think sometimes you will have to walk away.
Perhaps I am referring to a restoration process. It is very difficult to stay calm in situations where the person you love is purposely trying to hurt you. You can call it out, pray for them but it is impossible to change them. Every decision you make will be twisted into an attack. It is no surprise that courts and mediators exist. Sometimes it seems impossible to be civil in situations. Of course Jesus is the ultimate teacher in this situation. How he took every beating and yet had love and forgiveness in His heart. This can seem like an incredibly difficult regardless of our attitude. As much as I can heed this message putting it into practice is a process that is difficult. Even taking it one day at a time. Not everyone is able to handle situations the same. I believe this is why we need a church body to lean on and share in support. Thanks for replying!
I understand and find this so much easier said than done. We must sometimes realize abusive relationships exists regardless of the attitude we possess. Sometimes we have to forgive “shake off the dust “ and continue our purpose. Family and relationships can be a tool the enemy uses to keep us held back or focused on instead of sharing the gospel. I do not consider it quitting or losing in those situations as long as there is genuine forgiveness in your heart. Do you believe verbal abuse and manipulation should just be tolerated? I get there will be another mountain behind this one but I think sometimes you will have to walk away.
Perhaps I am referring to a restoration process. It is very difficult to stay calm in situations where the person you love is purposely trying to hurt you. You can call it out, pray for them but it is impossible to change them. Every decision you make will be twisted into an attack. It is no surprise that courts and mediators exist. Sometimes it seems impossible to be civil in situations. Of course Jesus is the ultimate teacher in this situation. How he took every beating and yet had love and forgiveness in His heart. This can seem like an incredibly difficult regardless of our attitude. As much as I can heed this message putting it into practice is a process that is difficult. Even taking it one day at a time. Not everyone is able to handle situations the same. I believe this is why we need a church body to lean on and share in support. Thanks for replying!